Nakiaj1s – Join the Madness

{July 29, 2009}   Easy Women Make Things Hard

The song is “Fuck Every Girl In the World”. And I’m pretty sure it is the dream, no, the GOAL of every heterosexual human male. AND I believe that if it weren’t for physical borders… like oceans…this would be possible in today’s society.

Ladies…we have got to stop making it so easy for men! Until recently I was a part of the problem. I admit it. Admitting it was the first step to my recovery. I had reduced myself to jump-off status by being an easy target for men. My “liberated” attitude toward sex made me say things like “I’m a grown woman. If I want to have commitment free sex with a man I can.” This is true, but it’s also against everything that I want for myself in the long run. And the single act of having sex with ONE man made it hard for at least 20 women to find a good man…except the one who’s with that ONE man I had sex with…of course is he REALLY is a good man if he’s with her and had sex with me? Probably not. But I digress.

The point is, that men have openly (as open as blogs and facebook are) admitted that they don’t find it necessary to be chivalrous, gentleman-like, or even DECENT to a woman because, as they so eloquently put it, “what one won’t do another one will.” And this is not just sexually speaking. Just because you’re giving the bomb blowjobs to your man does NOT mean that he’s not actively cheating with someone who has a better fried chicken recipe. We live in a generation of entitlement. Teenagers feel it’s their birthright to have a cell phone and a game system and will look at you like you’re stupid if you say they should earn it or pay for it themselves. And men feel they are entitled to have a bevy of beautiful, sexually explicit, women to bend to their every whim and take care of them…and then to have a wife/main chick too. The sad thing is…they are getting it!

Women are screaming that there are no good men in the world. That’s not true. What’s true is that there ARE good men in the world; they’re just already with somebody else. And the good ones who are with somebody already are NOT taking on second and third women because…well then they wouldn’t be GOOD men. They’d be cheating bastards.

This unbalance has women compromising their standards and questioning themselves. We ask, “What is wrong with me? Is there something else I should be doing?” We make excuses for men, “It’s hard for a man to be sensitive. He didn’t have a positive role model in the home. He doesn’t know what he wants.” And my favorite is “All men cheat. It’s just in their nature.” Well…he had enough of a role model to tell him he wants a light skinned, longhaired, big butt woman to suck his dick twice a day. Who told him THAT was right? Well he needs to ask that same person how to stand up, pull his mother’s tit out his mouth and his head out of his ass and act like a damn man! I’m sorry to be vulgar but enough is enough!

To remedy this problem one of two things has to happen…and since women can’t cooperate with each other enough to successfully run a BAKE SALE I’m just going to go ahead and say…the ONLY way to fix this is to have more male children. We can only hope to fix things for the next generation of females. We have to re-tip the scales in the favor of the XX chromosomes out there and see to it that there are more men than women. Then males will have to go back to competing. That’s the problem. All the competition is among women. Men don’t have to have a better job than the next guy. OR be more handsome than the next guy (I mean..HOW many women are pregnant by Lil’ Wayne right now?…ummm. yeah). OR have any better asset than the next guy. Men have it too easy. They are able to be selective and say, your weave isn’t right…NEXT. Your sex isn’t hot enough anymore…NEXT. She will buy me a Playstation so you get…NEXT.

If we force men to step up their games they will. If they can’t act like a scrub and STILL get a woman they WILL stop acting like a scrub. But as long there are women who will put up with his jobless ass he will continue to be a jobless ass! We allow men to treat us in ways, and do things that we don’t allow our children to do. If our children make a mess, we tell them to clean it up. Yet we follow behind our men, picking up their Coogi and Jordans. Everyday our kids get up and go to school while our men sit at home waiting for dinner.

It has to end. JUST STOP!! Stop allowing sub-par men to get a hole in one!


{July 6, 2009}   Location, Location, Location


The Difference Between a Stripper and a Ho.



Why do men go to strip clubs? The general idea seems to be to watch half naked/fully naked women writhe and wiggle to bass heavy music, and fantasize about what it would be like to have sex with them. The more adventurous even have the option of a lap dance where for an extra fee the half-naked/fully naked woman will put her well-used booty directly on your lap and let her ass write all sorts of checks her orifices won’t cash.

Imagine my surprise when on an average night out, my rum clouded eyes were witness to a decent looking girl in a most INDECENT dress and what I’m sure was no panties at all completely bent over touching the ground and grinding on Mr. Random in the middle of the dance floor. Besides wondering if what she was wearing was really a dress at all or if it was a tunic SHIRT as I suspected, I also wondered why she didn’t just take her show to a different venue and get paid for it. She clearly enjoys being watched and displaying her cookies, why not capitalize on it? Men, why bother to go to the strip club when for just one cover charge you can get a night full of free lap dances. Granted you might actually have to stand up instead of sitting down, but when it’s free who can complain. And if you do stand, just prop against the wall and let her have at it.



LADIES!! Stop short changing yourself. You do all this work, twerkin and poppin all night long for a man. At least make him buy you a drink! Go ahead and wear panties, that way you have some place for men to tuck dollar bills. Now, I’m no prude. I don’t see nothing wrong with a little bump and grind. But if you are bending over and “making it clap” then you’ve taken it well beyond dirty dancing and straight into pole dancing. The only difference between you and a REAL stripper is the business license of the club you’re in, and the lack of dough you’re bringing in. It’s a recession out there girls. Get money!

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